There is no doubt about it, and statistics back it up: handsome people get on better than those less fortunate in this regard. Handsome people have to work less hard to get ahead. But what makes someone attractive, handsome? If you look at someone you consider attractive, you will be hard pressed to see what it is they’ve got that makes them so good looking. Attractiveness, if we ignore the obvious physical impairments such as buck teeth or a warty nose—all of which can be corrected—is very hard to define. Take any Hollywood stars, such as Liza Minelli, Woody Allen, Julia Roberts, and Sean Penn, who aren’t classically good looking, and we can see that they have charisma, charm, magnetism, a larger-than-life attitude. They come right out at you. They have life, presence, drama, power, and personality.
毫无疑问，统计数据同时证明：漂亮的人更容易得到提升。漂亮的人不需要太努力工作就能走到前面。但是什么让人漂亮有吸引力呢？如果你观察一些你认为有吸引力的人，你会很难说出是什么让他们看上去感觉很好。吸引力，如果我们忽略明显的身体缺陷，比如兔牙或是酒糟鼻——这些都可以修正——就很难定义。以好莱坞明星为例，比如Liza Minelli, Woody Allen, Julia Roberts, 和Sean Penn，他们看上并不是经典美人，但是我们能看到他们的魅力，迷人，有吸引力，并拥有很好的人生态度。他们展现在你面前，他们有活力，仪表， 角色，力量和个性。
You too must have these things. They are easier to acquire than looks anyway. Being attractive comes from within. Know that you’re being judged at all times. If you dress well, pay attention to your grooming, cultivate that smile, look good and cool at all times, and come across as friendly, warm, articulate, and caring, you will also come across as attractive and good looking. Looks are all in the smile and the eyes. Smiles that light up a room are magnetic and powerful. Eyes that twinkle and are full of life are enough to make us think the whole face is good looking.
你也需要有这些东西。这些物质比漂亮的外表更容易得到。吸引力来自内在。知道你一直在被评价。如果你注意穿着、仪表、保持微笑，一直保持良好冷静从容，并且友好，温暖，善于表达，注意细节，你也会很有吸引力并且看上去很好。关键在于微笑和眼睛。微笑能让整个房间都明亮起来，这非常神奇非常有魔力。眼睛闪闪发光充满活力能足够让人认为整个人都看上去不错。
Attractiveness is also about posture and position. If you slump you give off an aura of gloom and depression. This is unattractive and not good looking.
吸引力和姿势和心境也有关系。如果你心情不好，你就会散发出忧郁沮丧的气息。这会让看上去状态不佳也会失去吸引力。
Your walk should be erect, proud, assured. So should your handshake. Everything about you should be up and open, happy and confident. This is attractive. Your grooming should be faultless, your dress sense superb, your style quirky but suave, your whole demeanor splendid and outstanding. This is attractive.
你走路时要挺直腰杆、充满自豪感和信心。你的握手也是一样。你所有的表现都应该积极向上和外向，开心，和自信。这就是吸引力。你的仪表要毫无瑕疵、你的穿着要庄重典雅、你的风格要深邃而温和、你的风度要亮丽而卓越，这同样也是吸引力。
You do not 你不应该
- Slouch 无精打采
- Slump 消沉
- Look scruffy 邋遢
You do 你应该
- Get anything fixed that can be fixed that would be considered unattractive—warts, bad breath, bad teeth, poor eyesight. (Stop squinting for God’s sake and get some proper glasses!)
- 把能解决的事都解决掉，要不会被认为没有吸引力——疣，口气，坏牙，目光游移（停止
LOOKS ARE ALL IN THE SMILE AND THE EYES.
关键在于微笑和眼睛。
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